从就职宣誓到结婚誓言:前奥古斯塔学生协会主席, Vice President Continue Partnership as Married Couple

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三年后,他们被选为奥古斯塔学生协会(ASA)主席和副主席,六年后,他们说“我愿意”,“Drs. 18岁的凯特琳(格雷伯)和18岁的卢克·赫尔利在12bet游戏平台奥达尔食堂第一次见面. 在他们进入12bet中文官方平台的第一年之前,在一次杰出学者活动中,两人坐在同一张桌子旁. 

凯特琳和卢克直到二年级开学的迎新周才再次相遇. 他们都是一年级学生的维京向导,在宿舍里组装阁楼床.

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“I saw him in the hallway and said, ‘嘿, aren't you the one that I sat with at Distinguished Scholars?’” 凯特琳 remembered. “Later in the week, I needed someone to help me move my carpet into the sophomore dorms, so I asked the Welcome Week group, ‘Does anybody have a pickup (truck)?’ Nobody volunteered, but Luke came up really quietly, 他说, ‘I have a pickup — just let me know.’ So, that was the beginning of our friendship.”

凯特琳, 赫尔利的, 南达科塔州 — ironically Luke’s last name — and Luke, 广州的, 南达科塔州, 两人都在农场长大,并通过家庭关系被吸引到12bet游戏平台. 卢克在大一的第一个学期走了一条小弯路——在一月期中(J-Term)转入12bet游戏平台之前,他上了一所不同的大学,因为他在开学的第一个月就意识到12bet游戏平台就是他应该去的地方.

凯特琳和卢克 were both biology majors, and Luke added a business administration major along the way. They were biology teaching assistants (TAs), admission ambassadors, 在2017年的维京日皇室法庭上,并在许多相同的校内球队中打球. Throughout these experiences, 两人建立了亲密的友谊,并能够很好地合作,这使他们成为了非盟最有影响力的伙伴关系:ASA主席和副主席.

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凯特琳, who had been involved with ASA since her first year, 她曾计划竞选高级参议员的职位,直到一些学生鼓励她竞选总司令. 

凯特琳说:“卢克之前没有参加过全美音乐奖,我也没怎么想过。. “但, then, I sent a text to Luke and said, ‘Do you want to run for ASA?’ He said, ‘Are you serious?’ And, I said, ‘No, not really, but kind of.’” 

As the two began to think about it, 虽然, they realized they just might make a good presidential pair. 

“I had surgery on my thumb junior year, 因为我不会写字,所以凯特琳上课坐在我旁边帮我记笔记,卢克说。. “所以,我们学会了如何合作,并意识到我们可能是一个很好的ASA团队.”

卢克说,竞选这个职位是“我们在大学期间做过的最艰难的事情之一”. They woke up at 4:30 a.m. 在校园周围的院子里张贴标语,熬夜为他们的竞选活动制作社交媒体帖子. 

“一旦我们赢了,这是非常有趣的,因为我们开始计划明年,”卢克说. “With regard to the actual (academic) year, it was a lot more constant chaos, 但很愉快,因为我们可以和(斯蒂芬妮)赫塞斯·桑德林主席一起工作, 吉姆比斯(前学生事务副总裁)和参加董事会会议. So, 这是一个非常愉快的经历,同时也能够在我们的学期结束之前传授一些变化.”

在他们任期内, 凯特琳和卢克, along with their Senate, added an Augie Access Senator position, 提高透明度,扩大校园回收重要性背后的信息, among other things. 然而,凯特琳仍然为她的竞选伙伴和副总统感到骄傲. 

“We had a bonfire (while campaigning) and Luke's parents came. I remember telling his dad, “卢克真的很好相处,因为他是我认识的最勤奋的人.’ And, he really is,凯特琳说, tears in her eyes. “It's just something I'm really proud of. He works really hard and does not complain ever.

“That made it so fun because, 是的, 很混乱, but it was our own chaos that we decided on,” 凯特琳 continued. “当你和一个兴奋的人一起工作时,他不会抱怨你所做的工作很辛苦, it's really rewarding.”

In May 2018, the pair graduated from Augustana. 不久之后,凯特琳问卢克:“你会约我吗??他说了, 两人一起度过了一个夏天,然后在秋天开始异地恋. Luke去了位于Vermillion的南达科他大学医学院, and 凯特琳 headed to 南达科塔州 State University (SDSU) to earn a Ph.D. 在细胞 & molecular biology.

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They made trips back and forth to see each other, and in June of 2019, 卢克为他们安排了一次特别的旅行……去12bet游戏平台的奥达尔餐厅.

“Since that's where we met, 我想那可能是向凯特琳求婚的最佳地点,卢克说。. “I had my sisters and my parents help me out. 我们清空了餐厅,用一块小帘子围了起来,挂着一堆照片,甚至还有我们的竞选标语, instead of saying ‘凯特琳和卢克 for ASA,’ said ‘凯特琳和卢克 for life.’”

凯特琳答应了,两人于2020年8月结婚,并确保在仪式和招待会之间在12bet游戏平台停留,在校园里拍了一些照片. 

2022年5月, 凯特琳和卢克 graduated from SDSU and USD, 分别, and began a new journey in Fargo, 北达科他, for Luke’s orthopedic surgery residency. After working as a scientist in Fargo for a year, 虽然, 凯特琳’s dream job became available — teaching at Augustana. 她于2023年8月申请并接受了生物学客座助理教授的职位.

“We realized we were going to live apart. 但, 我们一起决定,得到这个机会和经验对我来说是值得的,凯特琳说. “And, I'm so grateful that I did because it's been the best job ever. The students are amazing. They are so dedicated. 他们太善良了. Every day, I wake up and I'm excited to come to work.”

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Despite being apart, the 赫尔利 know it’s not for long. Luke will join 凯特琳 in Sioux Falls for a year beginning in July, 然后hurley一家会回到法戈,完成Luke最后两年的住院医生实习期. After that, the couple will journey to wherever in the U.S. Luke is placed for his fellowship. Eventually, they plan to return to Sioux Falls.

通过实习, moves and long distance, what remains constant for the 赫尔利 are their aligned values, 共同成长的决心和对彼此的爱——每次他们谈到对方时都很明显.

“凯特琳 is the kindest person I know,卢克说。. “她总是为别人着想,总是把别人放在第一位. That's something that I continue to work on. She's always a constant reminder of acting with a kind heart.”

“我总是说, 在路加福音, that my favorite thing is he's talented and good at so many things, but he's very humble,凯特琳说. “He's just so patient and calm. He’s also very witty and sneakily funny.”

当赫尔利夫妇回想起2014年春天他们第一次在食堂见面的那一天——大约十年前——他们意识到12bet游戏平台的重要性,以及像参与其中这样简单的事情是如何让他们走到今天的.

“我所做的所有事情和我遇到的所有人都是参与一个或另一个组织的结果,卢克说. “Al虽然 all those things take up time, it's more than worth it because it leads to wonderful experiences, lifelong friends and maybe even a future spouse.”

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